Skinny Shaming Is A Real Thing

Let's get real today, many people seem to think that skinny shaming is acceptable. Suggesting certain women really need to get a pizza or a burger and eat the whole thing it is an unacceptable joke. People only hear about fat shaming but skinny shaming is a real problem too.

Body shaming
NounThe action or practice of humiliating someone by making mocking or critical comments about their body shape or size.

Don't get me wrong, I have had positive comments like I can pull of anything because I am skinny, that I could be a model and I have had girls tell me that they would kill to have my body however I have been asked how sad it is not having a big ass, I have been told that the wind will blow me away and that men do not want bones, they want curves (especially from the African community). Bones, too skinny, toothpick are just a few of the names I've been called over the years. Instead of being greeted with a typical "Hey, how are you" you often hear "you are…


A good husband makes a good wife.
The Mr. & Mrs.
As we all know love is a beautiful thing, and it is something we have all experienced in our lives differently, because love is a variety of different feelings. It may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards one's self, other humans, food or animals, so again we all know the feeling called love.
I've been told several times by many to get married to a man who loves me much more than I do love him and they told me that from their own experiences. The idea of marriage is something the majority if not all of us would be happy to have in our lives. I am still quite young, and I still have a lot of growing to do within myself before I know for sure that I am able to share love with another person.
For me, love is a serious thing, and there is nothing more beautiful than two people in love, it's always magic. But in today's society people do not stay together for eternity anymore, we give up too easily nowadays but this does not stop us, from fantisizing about our wedding. I don't know about you guys, but for me everytime I witness two people getting married I get the desire to get married  myself, it is just so beautiful. After all, as long as the two people giving their lives to one and another are happy and content, that is all that matters. Marriage is another dimension of knowing your other half, it's like sharing a house with that special person and getting used to their flaws and beauty.

Not so long ago I was a bridesmaid to my bestfriend's sister's wedding which inspired me to write this post and I was invited to another one in The U. K. which unfortunately I did not attend because of the other wedding but of course, I got pictures. 
And here are few pictures from the wedding I attended, my girls and I had so much fun. It was definitely a day to remember *wink*. 
Please, let me know your thoughts on marriage or being married in the comment section. I wish all a happy and blessed weekend.

Thank you for stopping by.


  1. I think ppl need to understand commitment before getting married and knowing that the vows you say infront of your family, friends and God are very deep and should not be brokenšŸ™šŸ½šŸ’

    1. I agree with you. And instead of jumping from one relationship to another, people should take time to get to know themselves to study what went wrong in their previous relationship(s) and how to prevent that for happening in their next one and in that way they will be so much more prepare to whatever will happen next.


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