Showing posts from October 8, 2017

Skinny Shaming Is A Real Thing

Let's get real today, many people seem to think that skinny shaming is acceptable. Suggesting certain women really need to get a pizza or a burger and eat the whole thing it is an unacceptable joke. People only hear about fat shaming but skinny shaming is a real problem too.

Body shaming
NounThe action or practice of humiliating someone by making mocking or critical comments about their body shape or size.

Don't get me wrong, I have had positive comments like I can pull of anything because I am skinny, that I could be a model and I have had girls tell me that they would kill to have my body however I have been asked how sad it is not having a big ass, I have been told that the wind will blow me away and that men do not want bones, they want curves (especially from the African community). Bones, too skinny, toothpick are just a few of the names I've been called over the years. Instead of being greeted with a typical "Hey, how are you" you often hear "you are…

My First Blogger Award

So guys here is a thing...I was nominated by a fellow blogger, Nadege a.k.a Glam Paradise boss for this blog award which is called The Blue Sky Tag Challenge Award. It is an unofficial blog award by a fellow blogger because she has found my blog or a particular article on my blog inspiring and deems my blog worthy of an award. But it comes with some rules though, I have to answer 11 questions given by her, then I have to nominate 11 new bloggers and give them 11 new questions.

Thank you for nominating me darling, I am so happy that my blog has inspired you in some way. Here is her blog:, check it out for more.

Let's start:
1. Why did you choose to blog as your passion and what inspired you to blog?
To be honest I started to blog because people asked me to. They liked my style and wanted me to blog about it and because I am passionate about fashion and beauty, it made the decision easier.

2. How can you describe yourself as a blogger and outside…