Showing posts from August 19, 2018

Skinny Shaming Is A Real Thing

Let's get real today, many people seem to think that skinny shaming is acceptable. Suggesting certain women really need to get a pizza or a burger and eat the whole thing it is an unacceptable joke. People only hear about fat shaming but skinny shaming is a real problem too.

Body shaming
NounThe action or practice of humiliating someone by making mocking or critical comments about their body shape or size.

Don't get me wrong, I have had positive comments like I can pull of anything because I am skinny, that I could be a model and I have had girls tell me that they would kill to have my body however I have been asked how sad it is not having a big ass, I have been told that the wind will blow me away and that men do not want bones, they want curves (especially from the African community). Bones, too skinny, toothpick are just a few of the names I've been called over the years. Instead of being greeted with a typical "Hey, how are you" you often hear "you are…

Truth Be Told

Matching couples attire is a lovely way people show that they are in a loving and romantic relationship and for those who do not know, we are wearing Ankara or Kitenge (as we call it in my language) outfits. Kitenge is one of the most loved fabrics for most African women and men if not all of them, which is not surprising that Kitenge style for couples is becoming more popular nowadays, let’s be honest Kitenge is taking over. There is almost nothing cuter than a couple that dresses in matching outfits, it's worn by lovers and connected with love. Are you going out for a date or an event with your significant other? His and hers Kitenge outfit can never go wrong, trust me.

I know you have questions regarding the man in these pictures and to answer your question, yes this is BAE, my Champ (because he is a champion in my eyes), the one who is so right for me, he is the one God blessed me with, he’s the Mr to my Mrs and I can confidently say that he is a total keeper.
When and how yo…